This time around, we went around town to gather thoughts from the Ghanaian youth, about their last breakups, and here’s what we found out. Most people don’t regret breaking up.
Sandra, 19 years;
“I’m currently in a relationship. My last breakup was..sometime 2 years ago in October. We broke up because one of us cheated and it was sort of messing the whole thing up. We just could not connect anymore due to that, and… do i regret breaking up? Yes, cos definitely when you love someone that much and you guys have to break up, it’s really a bad feeling. And would i go back? Yes, because funny enough we were able to get back and we’re dating again. So yeah i think the ‘would i go back question’ and the ‘do you still talk question’ has been answered, because we started dating again after a year.”
Kelvin, 21 years;
“I’m dating. Okay..my last breakup was 3 years ago in 2013. Chale the girl dey lie too much. The girl dey lie too much man. I don’t really regret it though chale,..for me it be lesson so i no really regret am. I ain’t going back no more, i ain’t going back no more. You heard that Chris Brown track? Sometimes she dey hala me for Whatsapp, but i no dey mind her so she shun. I now get better girl so that’s it man.”
Diza, 20 years;
“I’m single. Its been two years since i broke up,..The guy was a flirt and a cheat, so we had to break up. I don’t regret at all. No i would never go back, and we don’t talk.”
George, 20 years;
“Yeah i’m in a relationship. We broke up about a month ago. Yeah…we broke up because it was like we didn’t have time together. I don’t regret breaking up, but we’re back together so we still talk.”
Mathew, 23 years;
“I’m single. My last breakup was in June last year. I ended the relationship because i found out she was cheating. I don’t regret the breakup and i don’t think i’ll ever go back. We do talk but not like at first.”
Sandra, 20 years;
“I’m single. We broke up last year i think February, so it’s been a year now. So many issues brought up the break up. Like a lot of things caused the breakup. Like a lot of things, that’s why we just had to break up. I don’t regret. I don’t know but i’m just cool with it. As for going back, i really can’t tell. Maybe i might go. Yeah we used to talk after the break up but now it’s been some months and i haven’t heard from him.”
Doreeda, 20 years;
“I am currently single, but not searching. Instead im being searched for. My last and only breakup was in October 2014. We got ourselves engaged in sexual acts like kissing and the rest. Being a Christian, i knew it was not right. Matthew 5:27-28 can attest to this. He also just didn’t treat me right (that was from my side). For his side, i guess he found me too annoying, always getting on his nerves. We were mostly not happy together. I just couldn’t imagine the future. As for regret, not really and not always. I sometimes regret when i miss him but i know breaking up was the best. I sometimes feel like going back because he wants me back, but i will not go back. On whether we still talk, we normally cut communication for a long time like 3 months and then get in touch for about one week, then we argue about something and cut communication again.”
Sandra, 21 years;
“I’m in a relationship. I experienced my last breakup i think 3 years ago and he broke up with me because he said i was too emotional, cry over things and nag. I was doing all that, but it was due to the stuff he was doing to me. He flirts with girls, cheats and all that. I’ll cry over them and nag when i find out. As for regret, i don’t regret. Yeah i don’t regret him breaking up with me (laughs). I was so much in love with him that i couldn’t leave him, so when he asked for a breakup i was really hurt, even after all the things he was doing. He actually helped me. I don’t know what would have happened to me if i was still in such a relationship,..so i’m glad we did break up. I would never go back to him. I would never ever go back to a relationship like that. Hell no! We do talk but not like before. Once a while like ‘hi, how are you,..i’m good and all that’. We don’t really talk like friends now. Just like someone you know..”
Desmond, 20 years;
“I’m single because i want to be. My last breakup was 2 years ago because i wasn’t ready to be committed to someone. I just realized along the line that i wasn’t ready after several attempts with other different people. I just realized that right now i need to be committed to other things. But i still meet people to have fun, but i don’t get committed. I’ll get committed later on in my life. Do i regret breaking up? No i don’t. That would be like one of the best things i’ve done in the last 5 years my life. Will i go back? It depends. If i get to a point in my life where i feel like i’m now ready to commit to someone and she happens to be single as well and she’s ready and a good girl, so i don’t know. It depends. As for my ex we still talk. Once in a while she calls me. Once in a while i check up on her, that kind of thing. Yeah we still talk and once in a while too,..because we’re not that far from each other, we bump into each other. It’s not awkward. We’re kind of like friends now.”
Hope you enjoyed reading from some other peoples’ experiences. Be sure to share this on social media. Wink!
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